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Bangalore Anti Rape tips to avoid and prevent rape


With increasing cases of rape victims, security and vigilance has been a major concern among Bangalore citizens. Be it the recent child rape case , it is very essential for every individual to understand and train others on how to prevent this abuse . While the government / legislation / police is blamed at times , citizens too may get blamed for not having the basic awareness.

In this post we bring in few tips referenced from various links - to create an awareness on how to avoid and prevent rape - this is a must read for every individual .  If you find this useful , please share the article with the needed. Share your thoughts , advises and comments - join hands to reduce this crime.

IMPORTANT TIPS ON HOW TO AVOID AND PREVENT RAPE

Your first reaction if possible is to get away from that danger as quick as possible and run
away screaming for help. However we caution on the following areas.


1. RISK AREAS:
Even if it’s daytime, late hours or at night, avoid risk areas such as dark places, dimly lit areas, lonely places, bushy areas, short-cuts, being alone in a room with a man other than your husband, fiancée or brother.

2. ALERTNESS:
Walk with eyes and ears open, because some rapists may surprise you although some are cunning. They can grab you, knock you down, tear your clothes or even use drugs.

3. COMPANY:
It’s good practice especially when it’s late to walk in company of known friends,workmates or schoolmates, incase rapists strike they can easily raise alarm and get help
when you are many.

4. SUSPICION:
Never trust men hundred percent unless he is your husband or fiancée. Rapists don’t have outward signs, they could be strangers or people you know very well. Take care during
dates or parties and make sure that the venue is a public place, have an interest to know how drinks or food are served. You should be aware of the motive behind that party or date and if it is really necessary.

5. MODE OF DRESSING
When you are at home, school, place of work or anywhere else, make sure you wear clothes which don’t embarrass you, or which attract too much negative attention from
men/boys. We are not against how you should dress, but the question is how safe or respectful are you in public places, institutions, place of work or even at home.

6. PARENTAL GUIDANCE:
Avoid that habit of sending your daughters late at night to the shops, river, poshomill, beg for items in other peoples’ homes’ or anywhere else. Don’t leave your daughters no matter how young with male strangers or distant relatives
you are not sure of. Avoid buying your daughters always sweet things like sweets, cakes, jaggery and biscuits
etc. They will get used to it so much that if they fail to get in future, they can easily be tempted to accept them from strangers who can use this to lure and rape them.Avoid too much leisure life for your daughters, it must be occasional, should they be used to it and fail to get it in future, they can be tempted to accept money or services from any man or boy and it could be a trap to rape them one day.

NOTE:
Avoid situations and lifestyles that could lead you to be raped. Not all men are bad, there are only few misbehaving most of them are very respectful, caring and good fathers, husbands brothers, uncles, grandfathers, neighbours and friends.

So don’t condemn them in general
PREVENTION AGAINST RAPE/DEFILEMENT FOR THOSE UNDER 16 YEARS
1. Don’t accept to show a stranger away if he claims to be lost, instead tell him to seek help from fellow men and if he insists ran away from him and scream for help.
2. Don’t accept lifts from people you don’t know, these could be cars, bikes or motor bikes.
3. Be aware of people who come to your school, church or any where else claiming to have been sent by your parents and yet it is all false.
4. Don’t accept money, sweet things and snack foods from people you don’t know or even shamba boys, watchmen or even male neighbours.
5. Take care when you are from or to school, shop, rivers etc, don’t respond to calls by people you don’t know.
6. Don’t make a habit of being close to male neighbours and even going to the extent of playing with them every time.
7. When you are to or from somewhere on foot and notice a man blocking your way avoid him, if he still blocks you go back while screaming for help.
8. When you are from school or anywhere else, go home quickly and avoid playing too much on the way.
9. It is good to walk in groups so that if someone surprises you, you can raise an alarm and easily get help.
10. Avoid unnecessary shaking hands with men or boys you don’t know anyhowly, they can refuse with your hand and pull you to a place they can rape or defile you.
11. Avoid being out or going out to the shops, poshomill, or river late hours.
12. Avoid being carried anyhowly shoulder high by boys or men even if you know them, they can easily rape/defile you.
13. A good child does not loiter on the way home, you should make sure that you are at home before it is late.
14. Don’t bath naked where people can easily see you even if it is at home or in the river, while at home use the bathroom and make sure it is locked.
15. Avoid playing too much with boys in your school to the extent whereby you allow them to touch most of your body.
16. a boy or a man should not touch your body or private parts intentionally, this could lead to defilement should you allow it to go on for along time or for days.
17. When you want to change clothes at home, especially after bathing ensure that nobody sees your nakedness.
18. Incase a male neighbour sends you to the shop make sure that when you bring the items don’t take for him inside the house, call him and if he doesn’t come leave the
items at the door and go home.
19. If a male visitor comes home and you are alone don’t make a mistake of opening the door, even if he is a family friend, tell him the door is locked and your parents
have gone with the key.
20. If a man or a boy comes home and request for water, make sure you close the door behind you and give him water even through the window.
21. There is a danger of HIV/AIDS, unwanted pregnancies and eminent death therefore you should avoid situations that could lead to rape/defilement.
22. When a man or boy starts seductive signals, praises and giving you gifts anyhowly be careful avoid and say no to all these.

Important contacts to note at crisis :

  • Children's Helpline/Makkala Sahaya Vani - 1098 
  • Women's Helpline/Vanitha Sahaya Vani - 1091 
  • Vanitha Sahaya Vani landline - +91 80 2287 2364
  • Sthree Jagruthi Samithi - +91 80 22734956
  • South India Cell for Human Rights Education and Monitoring - Ph: 25473922/25492856
  • Association of Women Entrepreneurs of Karnataka  - Ph: 23389964 / 23111059 / 23385874.
  • Vimochana - Ph. 2549 2781/2549 2783
  • Mahila Dahkshata Samiti, - Ph: 23512543
  • Ashraya Women's Centre , Ph: 25251929

ANTI-GRAB AND COUNTER TECHNOLOGY – Attacks and Counter Measures

A. Handshake Grip
1. Scream for help, if not possible use your teeth to bite his hand.
2. If he still doesn’t release the grip, get hold of his gripping hand with your free hand and go under his armpit twisting his arm outside inwards this will injure or even break his arm.
3. If that site has mud or sand, bend down scoop some and splash in his eyes to distort his visibility.
4. If you can reach his face, harden your two fingers or one and poke very hard in his eyes to distort visibility.
5. It is good practice to wear hard soled shoes, you can use them to hit very hard on his kneecap or shin and this will automatically immobilize him.
6. For school girls, your fountain pen or geometrical set, divider/compass or biro is very useful.. At this moment with your other hand remove the top lid and hold it with the sharp end facing him or pierce through his face if you miss the eye.
7. With your leg you can also hit very hard in between his legs and you will have demolished his organ temporarily
B. Handgrip to Pull the Victim.
8. Using your other hand, pass it over the gripped hand and get hold of the fingers of your gripped hand tightly and tilt it backwards upwards to release the grip.
C. 2 Handgrip to Pull the Victim
9. With your other hand get hold of your gripped hand by the fingers and with force tilt it upwards and away from the rapists and if he still struggles with you do as in number 1.
D. Strangulation either Front or Hind with both his Hands.
10. Tighten your neck muscles so that you may not run out of oxygen and with your hands get hold of his last small fingers and forcefully thrust pulling them outside and away from your neck. Since you will be very close to him use your knee andhit very hard in between his legs to disable him. Alternatively you can hit his knee, or shin with your hard soled shoes.
E. Strangulation with one hand.
11. With your two hands get hold of his strangulating hand close to your back and jerk under his hand and outwards twist to release the grip and then counter as in
technique (10).
F. Back Hand (arm) Twisting.
12. Tighten your twisted hand and go inside and under his holding hand to release the grip and counter from behind by hitting in between his legs while your position is low level.
G. Back Hand (arm) Twisting Two Hands.
13. Using your feet heels hit / step very hard on his shin, kneecap or in between his legs backwards to release yourself.
H. Body Grab from Behind.
14. Use elbow to hit his body sides very hard and also lean forward a bit and hit between his legs in a reverse position, or you can hit his solar plexus.
15. If you notice him coming in haste avoid his grabbing hands by quickly leaning down wards depending on the level of his attack.
I. Body Grab from Front (face to face)
16. You can poke his eyes.
17. Grab his Adam’s apple very hard and squeeze until he suffocates or faints.
18. You can also put one hand under his chin (i.e. the inside part) and hold the other hand at the back of his head and twist it very hard sideways. This will put him off balance and he will fall down and faint instantly.
19. Use also your kneecap to hit very hard in between his legs, if he is very tall and you cannot reach that part use your hand to hit hard. You can also hit his shin or
kneecap to immobilize him.
J. Pulling you while holding your Hands in Front
20. Create some space in between your hands after making them tight, cross them go under and out to release the hold. If it proves difficult use your feet to hit on the
shin, kneecap or between the legs as in No. 19.
K. Hair Pulling.
21. Get hold of his hand that is pulling your hair move back very fast hitting his body with your elbow. You can also step hard on his shin, kneecap or feet.
L. Elbow Lock around the Neck
22. Hold one hand on his wrist and the other hold his elbow curve, turn your head in a good position to remove the lock and then thrust out upwards while stepping on his
shin.
M. Mouth Gagging and Hind Neck Holding
23. Get hold of the last finger of the hand gagging your mouth and pull it sideways away from your mouth and using the other hand hit him with the elbow.
N. Front Overhead Knife Attack or Rungu Attack
24. Step forward sideways in the opposite direction of the knife attack and with both your hands hit very hard the handholding the knife and with your foot hit his
kneecap, shin or in between the legs very hard.
O. Big Earrings or Stads grabbing
25. During late hours it is wise to remove them because once they are grabbed any struggle can result in your ears tearing.Note that the coming series of Anti-grab and counter technology we shall provide measures to tackle gang rapes, against fire arms and against drug use.

References 
- By Dolphin Anti Rape And AIDS Control Outreach
- Online bengaluru
- bangalore.citizenmatters.in/articles/1843-bengaluru-women-helpline

Overcome stress - Home remedy manemaddhu


Stressed ? Here are few home remedy tips to try out and get relaxed.




Home remedy

  • Add half cup ginger and half cup baking soda to a hot bath for relaxation
  • Rub little brahmi or castor oil on the soles of your feet at bedtime
  • Drink a tea made from sage leaves sweetened with honey
  • Chew 10-12 leaves of basil leaves twice a day
Dos
  • Try to eat regularly. Do not skip breakfast
  • Include plenty of vegetables and fruits. Exercise regularly
  • Go for 20-30 minutes of brisk walking
  • Practice deep breathing exercise
  • Do meditation. Its the best way to relax, dissolve stress and allow body to heal
  • Set aside a regular time each day specifically for relaxation , do not wait until feeling exhaust
  • Go for a regular walk or listen to music.
  • Tackle only one problem at a time. If necessary , break it down into smaller , achievable goals and work through them.Get sufficient sleep
  • Have positive attitude to life.
Don'ts
  • Avoid tea, coffee , alcohol , chocolate , colas , all white flour products , sugar , food coloring , chemical additives and strong condiments
  • Take fresh juicy fruits such as apples , grapes , pineapple , pears and grapefruit
  • Take a diet rich in Vitamin A and E
  • Drink a lot of water daily
  • Gently wash affected areas twice a day with lukewarm water and a non oily mild soap
  • Keep your hair off your face. Exercise. - practice deep breathing and relaxation exercises.
Disclaimer :  Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Sociocentric Life - an inspiring short story



It was a Christmas day - whole day it was drizzling filled with cold. Police inspector Tom was on regular rounds watching the city. At around 5.30 in the evening Tom came across a park which was empty - as most of the people were celebrating Christmas. He noticed one person who was sitting on a bench and had a suspicion what is this guy doing here without enjoying Christmas. When he approached towards him , he noticed the Guy was crying , slowly stood up , picked up a pistol from his pocket and was attempting a suicide. Tom immediately jumped on the guy and took off his pistol . The guy still tried to pick the pistol saying "Please leave me . I want to die", but tom managed to get it out of his reach. He consoled the guy and asked him what happened. the guy replied - "I am Jack . I am a businessman, recently i lost my business and now its very difficult at home to serve my family. With what face should I go home and celebrate Christmas" - he started crying sadly.

Tom consoled Jack , took a 20 dollar note from his wallet and tried to give it to him. Jack refused to accept, but still Tom managed to give him. While this happened , Tom received a emergency call on his police phone that - a lady had died , tom has to reach the spot and pick up the body. Tom asked Jack to accompany him and once the work is over he shall drop Jack at his home. Both left to the lady's house. Many people were gathered at the house. She was a black lady , her husband was standing and shivering with  grief , they had 5 small children who were crying looking at the body. On analysis it was found the lady was unable to withstand the poverty and had committed suicide through a water heater electric shock. The bed on which her body was kept was also broken.  When Tom prepared the van to transit the body , children's sorrow reached skies as they hold the grave box. The husband was shell shocked at the incident. 


Jack who was noticing these incidents , went to the husband and try to console him. He took out the 20 dollar note which Tom had given it to him and kept inside the husband's shirt and asked him "Don't worry . God is present . He will help you - please take this and get some food for children". Tom was surprised looking at this and thought how a person who was helpless and attempting a suicide 30 minutes ago is now consoling others and inducing strength words. On the way back home Jack told Tom , "Shit , what a stupid I am. I was thinking my problems were impossible. After seeing the lady's family poverty - my problem is nothing". 

This short story teaches a very nice moral - Till the time we think about us and our problems , it seems like those problems are big and impossible to solve. Once we start seeing the social life around us , we start feeling that the problems we have are acceptable and solvable. When life is self-centric, problem facing may seem unacceptable to the mind, when life is Socio-centric it brings in realization about the problem with sharing and peace to the mind.

Hope you liked the story . If Yes, then spare a minute by sharing the good message to your facebook and google friends.

Heart burn home remedy mane maddhu

Feeling a burning heart ? Don't worry - in this post we bring you few home remedy tips for quick relief - 




Home remedy

  • Eat few almonds when having heartburn
  • Drink a glass of chilled milk which is good remedy for heartburn
  • Add 10 drops lemon juice , half teaspoon natural sugar and half teaspoon baking soda into one cup of water and drink immediately to neutralize heartburn.
  • Eat a bowl of rice pudding made with milk which helps to absorb stomach acid.
  • Taking ginger root with honey after meals is also effective
  • Take 2 tablespoons of Aloe Vera gel with a pinch of baking soda for quick relief.
Dos
  • Eat small regular meals
  • After eating, have a light walk
  • Manage your weight
Don'ts
  • Avoid hot spicy food , pickles , fermented food , chocolates
  • Avoid alcoholic or very hot drinks , citrus or sour fruits.
  • Wear comfortable clothes
  • Do not go to sleep immediately after a dinner.

Disclaimer :  Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Fatigue home remedy Manne maddhu

Lot of work to do , feeling tired ? Don't worry - In this post , we bring you few home remedy tips to get relief from fatigue and tiredness.


Home remedy

  • Drink fresh orange juice with a pinch of rock salt
  • Soak 5 fresh dates in a glass of water overnight. Next morning , mix in blender and drink
  • Eat one mango daily and after an hour drink one glass warm milk with teaspoon of ghee added
Dos
  • Try to spend time each day in fresh air
  • Exercise regularly , particularly if having a sitting job
  • Try some deep breathing and muscle relaxation exercises. 
  • Include fresh vegetables , fruits, cereals , whole-grain products and brown rice in your diet
  • Take a nap if you are sleepy during the day for 10-15 minutes.
  • Practice meditation and reduce over stress.
Don'ts
  • Never miss breakfast
  • Avoid fatty foods , salty and sugary products
  • Avoid cold and iced drinks , especially during and after meals

Disclaimer : Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Bad breath home remedy manemaddhu

Embarrassed having a bad breath ? Don't worry , in this post we bring out few  home remedies which you may try yourself and get rid of bad breath. 



Home remedy

  • Rinse mouth with lemon juice mixed in water
  • Slowly chewing one or two cardamom seeds helps in minimizing bad breath
  • A tea made from seeds of fenugreek is useful. Use one tea spoon of seeds in half of water and allow it to boil slowly for 20 minutes. It should then be strained and used as tea.
  • Drink half cup of Aloe Vera juice twice in a day
Dos
  • Clean teeth after each meal. 
  • Eat more raw fruits and vegetables
  • Drink lot of water daily
  • Practice brushing twice a day once after sleep & before sleep.
  • Use a tongue cleaner during to remove any debris even after brush.
  • A chewing gum also helps to remove stains from teeth.
  • Meet a dentist regularly and have your teeth checked
Don'ts
  • Avoid smoking as its a major cause of bad breath
  • Avoid excessive intake of garlic and onion products
  • Avoid more intake of alcohol , tea , coffee products

Disclaimer :  Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Stomach Ache Home remedy ManeMaddhu

Suffering from stomach ache and not able to enjoy your meal? In this post , we bring out few home remedy tips which you may try to get some relief. 


Home remedy

  • Add honey in lemon tea and have it twice a day
  • Take one teaspoon of lemon juice and mint juice, add a few drops of ginger juice and black salt. Drinking this mixture will cure stomach pain.
  • Extract some juice after grating a few pieces of ginger. Massaging this juice on tummy will give relief
  • Mix one teaspoon of ajwain , some lemon juice and a pinch of black salt in warm water and drink.
Dos
  • Drink lot of water. It will cleanse the body of toxins and guarantee better bowel movements.
  • Opt for healthier options like leafy vegetables or fruits
  • If you regularly suffer from stomach ache , go for a daily walk which makes digestive system healthier
Don'ts
  • Avoid processed foods like chocolates and dairy products
  • Avoid excessive intake of spicy foods
  • Avoid too much intake and stomach stress - keep your stomach max 80% filled.
  • Do not exercise or do more physical work after a heavy meal. Relax for 5-10 min after a meal.

Disclaimer :  Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Back pain home remedy Manemaddhu

Suffering from a back pain ? In this post we bring out few tips which you can try at home and relieve from pain for instant comfort.



Home remedy

  • Apply an ice pack on the painful area for 15 minutes . Apply at least 3 times a day
  • Consume 2 or 3 cloves of garlic every morning
  • Rubbing the painful area with garlic oil is also good for relieving the pain. 
  • Prepare garlic oil by frying 10 cloves of garlic in 60ml of mustard oil or sesame oil on a slow fire till the cloves turn brown, then cooled oil should be applied on back before taking bath. Take a warm bath after 2-3 hours. Follow this for at least 15 days
  • Apply a paste of ginger powder mixed with water to affected area. Leave it for 15 minutes and wash it off. Then rub the back with eucalyptus oil.
  • Take the juice of one lemon mixed with pinch of common salt twice a day
  • Application of raw potato in the form of poultice is very effective in back pain , especially lower back
Dos
  • Maintain balanced weight. Wear comfortable , low heeled shoes
  • Maintain right posture while working in office
  • Use a chair with good back support. If your are sitting for a long period of time , try resting your feet on the floor or on a low stool
  • Take frequent breaks to stretch your body.
  • Driving long distance ? Use a pillow or rolled-up towel behind your back. Rest a while & run a mile
  • If you have trouble sleeping, try sleeping on your back with pillow under your knees or sleep on your side with your knees bent and a pillow between your knees which relaxes tense muscles.
  • Get regular low impact exercises & gentle yoga.
  • Practice safe ways of lifting and moving heavy objects to reduce the risk of straining your back.
Don'ts
  • Avoid exposure to cold weather or cold winds
  • Quit smoking as it decreases blood flow and prevents healing.
  • Avoid heavy weight lifting
  • Avoid lifting with twisting , bending forward or reaching
  • Avoid sitting for long periods of time
  • Change your sitting position frequently

Disclaimer : 
 Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.

Dry skin home remedy ManeMaddhu


Well , dry skin is common during winter. Proper care should be taken before it gets severe and causes uncomfortable. In this post we bring out few tips which can be tried at home and keep dry skin at bay. 



Home remedy

  • Add 5 drops of lavender oil or oat extract to bath water. After the bath , apply Aloe Vera  cream
  • Mix an egg yolk and with a few drops of lime and olive oil. Spread on the face and leave it till the skin feels dry and then wash it off with water
  • Apply a pulp of fresh cherries to the face at night, before going to bed. Leave it for 15 minutes and then rinse it off. This will give you a beautiful complexion and also you will find relief from dry skin.
  • Add 1 drop of tea tree oil to your favorite day or night cream to help moisturize and smooth skin, Tea tree oil has been known to penetrate into skin's cellular level.
  • Apply Aloe Vera gel topically on affected areas . Aloe Vera is soothing, healing and moisturizing

Do's
  • Consume plenty of yellow and orange vegetables such as carrots,cantaloupes,apricots
  • Drink plenty of water everyday to keep the skin well hydrated
  • Stay out of overheated rooms, avoid sudden changes in temperature, protect yourself from wind and sun.
Don'ts
  • Avoid strong soaps which take off oil from skin, leaving skin dry, choose mild soaps
  • Do not smoke
  • Do not have soft drinks or eat sugar, chocolate,potato chips or other junk foods.

Disclaimer : 
 Always seek advice of your physician or qualified health professionals before taking any new treatment This information is not a substitute for professional medical advise.
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